For the family of Mr Ogbonnaya Ani in Umuose
Urobo, Uburu, Ohaozara Local Government Area of Ebonyi State, life can’t
be more cruel to seven members of the household now afflicted with
madness one after the other.
Indeed, 70-year-old Ani is swimming in the ocean of grief, anguish
and pains. He paints a perfect picture of a fellow whose gods have not
been benevolent enough to crack his palm kernel for him. Rather, they
watch his blessings turn to blemish.
The Ani family is being ravaged by the spirit of madness. Take this:
Ogbonnaya Ani’s elder brother’s daughter is mentally challenged. His
younger brother’s son is in the same condition. Three of his own
children, a male and two females, are equally afflicted. His
daughter-in-law is not left out. So, there are six mentally ill persons
in the family and, perhaps, still counting. Worst still, one of Ani’s
mentally challenged daughters is heavily pregnant and no one seems to
know who the lover boy is. And before his first wife died, she exhibited
some signs of madness.
Recently, our reporter encountered the distraught Ani. He told the
stranger than fiction story. There is no doubt that the madness ravaging
his immediate and nuclear families have left its toll on the old man.
Sadness is evident in his sunken eyes. He looked frail and his voice
quakes in palpable agony as he spoke. But for the magnanimity of a
relation, Ani and his household would not have had a place to lay their
heads. This is because his mentally challenged son, Igwe Ani, alias
Martin Martin, set his house ablaze. And before help could come, the
structure had been reduced to ashes. So, currently, Ani and his family
are squatters somewhere in Umuose Urobo in Uburu, Ohaozara Local
Government Area of Ebonyi State.
When the reporter visited the family last Wednesday, Ozieme, Ani’s
beautiful but mad daughter, was hanging around. With her tummy
protruding as a result of advanced pregnancy, she looked vacantly into
space, perhaps unaware of her environment and condition. A few times she
smiled and muttered to herself. When asked to pose for a photograph,
Ozieme obliged.
Before Ozieme became sick, she was a very beautiful girl. In fact, in
spite of her condition, glimpses of her beauty remain. And even in her
state of madness, men still find her attractive and make love to her.
The evidence is the bulging stomach she is carrying.
Tale like no other
“This place we are is not my house,” began Ani, who spoke in his
native dialect. “My place is further up, after Oriebe. I relocated to
this place because of the problem that I’m facing. I had a small mud
house and I made it good enough for people to stay in before the problem
started through my son, Igwe. It first started with Igwe and his
sister, Ozieme joined later. While Igwe’s problem started at home,
Ozieme’s started from outside the community. When she travelled and
returned, she began to behave abnormally.”
In an agony laden voice, Ani continued: “I don’t know how it started
but we suspected or thought that Igwe joined his mates to smoke all
sorts of things. I cautioned him to stop it if he was indulging in such
act but there was no difference. We used to beat him to stop smoking to
know if he would but to no avail. He started manifesting madness about
eight years ago. He was still in primary school when it started; he was
in Primary Four when he broke loose. Because of the problem, he couldn’t
continue with his education. I cannot really say if he brought it upon
himself by smoking certain substances or it is a problem destined to
come”.
Ani said that the problem reached a crescendo when Igwe burnt down
his house. “He used to pack all sorts of rubbish and dump in the house.
It was impossible to chase him out of the house because he used to wield
cutlasses and wood, threatening to harm anyone who gets close to him.
At a point, he had outgrown everybody. On a certain day, he set the
house ablaze and before people could come to fight the fire, things had
got out of hand. That was how the building containing two rooms, a
parlour and big verandah were razed down. Thereafter, we became
homeless, so I brought my wife and kids to stay in a relation’s place.
That was how we relocated.”
Like brother like sister
Ani said that his daughter was okay until a certain man from Nsukka
in Enugu State came to seek her hand in marriage. According to him, the
man eloped with the girl, adding that by the time she returned home, she
had lost her mind even as she nursed a baby.
His words: “In the case of Ozieme, there was a time she travelled to
Enugu to stay with her brother. There she started a relationship with
one man from Nsukka and they agreed to marry. She brought the man home
and introduced him to us. After meeting with us, the man said that he
was going to prepare and come back for the formalization of the
relationship. She insisted on going with the man; we asked her to wait
for the man to go and come but she refused. We didn’t see the man again.
When she was coming back, she came with a baby and started behaving in a
manner we could not understand. We tried all we could to deal with the
situation to no avail. This thing happened about five years ago and we
have not set eyes on the man ever since. She didn’t have the soundness
of mind to breastfeed and properly care for the baby and she died. Right
now, she is heavily pregnant, she will be putting to bed anytime and we
do not know who is responsible for the pregnancy.
“Again, another of my daughter who is married and a seamstress is
also behaving abnormally. I cannot explain how this problem came into
the family. From our parents, we did not experience any such thing. It
did not happen to my eldest brother, who had died.”
Family tradition
Madness is becoming a sort of tradition in the family. Take this from
Ani: “I cannot say how it came about because I’m not God. But my
brother’s daughter, Nweke is also having a mental problem. In her own
case, someone took her to a town and later brought her back, saying he
could not understand her behaviours anymore. He said that she was
talking out of sense hence he brought her home. So, if you ask me, I
would say that that was the time I started seeing such a thing in the
family. She was the first in the family to be afflicted by the problem.
It started about 20 years ago and it has been spreading from one person
to another. Even my son’s wife who was married from another village and
living in Enugu with Ozieme is also behaving in a way we cannot
understand. I learnt that she is walking about the street but I have not
seen her. The whole thing is surprising to us. It is an unimaginable
disaster. It is a heavy burden on us and we do not know what to do about
it. In fact, it is beyond us. If not that we surrendered ourselves to
God in prayer, asking him to protect us, who knows what would have
happened now?”
Wife’s family involved
Asked if such trait could be traced to his late wife’s family, he
said: “In the family of my deceased wife and mother of these mentally
challenged children, they had a problem somewhat close to this. But in
their case, it wasn’t so pronounced as this. In their own case, it made
them to be talking too much. In a nutshell, I would say that my wife’s
family manifested a semblance of this problem but it wasn’t full blown
like this”.
At a point, Ani couldn’t continue his blood chilling story as he
seemed drained of energy. Admitting that he was overwhelmed by the
development, he, however, attributed his staying power to the grace of
God. “If not God, perhaps I would have been consumed,” he remarked.
Speaking on the matter, an Urobo village leader, Chief Augustine Aja
Akuma, said: “When the problem started with Igwe Ogbonnaya Ani, we
thought that he had joined some boys to smoke dangerous substances
because, at the time, he just returned from Kano where he was staying
with his brother. We used to tie him with ropes and beat him in a bid to
stop that sort of thing. But the more we tried, the worse the situation
became. It got to a point when he began to strip himself naked and
started behaving in an incomprehensible manner. He started eating dirty
things”.
Chief Akuma further said: “We were yet to come to terms with Igwe’s
condition when his sister, Ozieme returned from her station and started
behaving abnormally. We started wondering if it was the Nsukka man she
ran to that caused it. But if the Nsukka man was responsible for
Ozieme’s madness, what about her brother’s condition? Again, if Igwe
smoked something and it turned his brain as some thought, did his sister
also smoke the same thing? These are questions that could not be
answered. We have been battling to solve the problem without success.
We have brought several prayer groups to the family”.
Affirming that it runs in the family, Akuma volunteered: “Pa
Ogbonnaya Ani’s brother’s daughter (niece) also had the same problem. In
fact, she has been in it for over 20 years because the child she bore
when it started is in his 20s now. We don’t know how this thing came
about because Pa Ogbonnaya’s father and mother were not known to be mad
just as Ani’s siblings were all sound in mind. Why the problem befell
their children we cannot explain.
“About four or five years ago, Ogbonnaya Ani’s younger brother’s son
(nephew), Sunday Onu, started acting funny. He is a bit calm now because
of injections being administered on him by psychiatrist people but that
does not mean that he is normal. Ani’s three children – one man and
two women are affected. His son’s wife, who we married from another
village, suffers the same fate. We don’t know what this means. We don’t
know whether it is a curse or spiritual attack. As I said earlier, we
have invited prayer warriors from different churches on several
occasions and they came to pray with the family, yet it has defied all
solutions”.
Disclosing that the family is in dire need of assistance, he said:
“We are appealing to government, well meaning organisations and
individuals to come to the aid of the family because they have suffered
too much. Ogbonnaya Ani is above 70 years of age, yet he bears this sort
of tribulation. At his age, he ought to be enjoying the fruit of his
labour, he is supposed to be taken care of by his children but he is the
one taking care of them because of their health condition. Whatever
help that could be extended to the family will be of immense benefit to
them.”
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